Are you missing a guy right now but you don’t want to tell him that?
Well, there are probably around 2,455,142,745 women today that feel the same as you (and you probably didn’t read that number anyway).
But how do you tell a guy you miss him without actually saying it in person? That’s actually the challenge, isn’t it? Well, I might have some ideas…
How to tell a guy you miss him without saying it
There are ways to express to a guy that you miss him. But unless you write it down or something, he may not get it.
Believe me. As a guy, we’re not the best at interpreting subtle hints. We might have a pretty good idea sometimes. But we wouldn’t know unless you tell us.
Anyway, here are ways you can tell a guy you miss him without explicitly saying it to him:
1. Send him a text message or leave him a voice chat telling him how much you’ve been thinking about him
Although it can be hard to put your feelings into words, sometimes it’s the most effective way to communicate with the person you care about.
Doing so might relieve you a little too:
By sending him a text or leaving him a voice chat telling him how much you’ve been thinking about him, you’re letting him know that you’re still thinking about him even when you’re not together.
It’s a great way to let him know that you still care about him and that you miss him.
2. Post a heartfelt message on his Facebook wall or send him a Tweet with a hug emoji
Guys love getting attention, even if it’s just through social media.
If you post a message on his Facebook wall or send him a Tweet with a hug emoji, he may understand that you’re thinking of him and that you miss him. It may not be the most personal way to tell him but it could work.
3. Recall fun and intimate moments when you’re together
It can be tough trying to find the right words to say to someone you care about. You may also not want to come across as being too needy or desperate.
But, if you really miss the guy, recalling fun and intimate moments when you’re together can be a great way to show him how much he means to you.
You know…reminiscing…
It’s a subtle way of letting him know that you’re thinking of him and that he’s always on your mind. It can also make him feel good knowing that he’s contributed to some of your happiest memories.
4. Tell him you want to meet up
If you want to tell a guy you miss him, the easiest way to do it is to simply tell him that you want to meet up.
It doesn’t have to be anything romantic or intimate. Just meeting up for coffee or a quick bite can sometimes be enough.
When you tell him this, he will probably get the hint that you’re thinking about him and that you miss him. It also gives him an opportunity to see you in person and catch up.
It will make things a lot less awkward if you eventually decide to tell him how you really feel.
5. Get interested in the things that interest him
It’s always a good idea to get interested in the things that interest a guy. It shows him that you’re thinking about him and want to be more connected with him. It can also be a fun way to learn more about him and his interests.
By getting interested in the things that interest him, you’re opening up the door for conversation and connection.
Especially when you’re giving off your cutest reaction while doing so:
You’re also letting him know that you’re thinking about him, even when he’s not around. That’s definitely something that he will appreciate.
6. Appreciate his presence when you’re together
One way to show a guy you miss him is to appreciate his presence when you’re together.
Maybe you used to take him for granted or not really pay attention to him. But now that he’s away, you really appreciate the time you spend with him.
You may find yourself wanting to talk more and spend more time with him. You may be more attentive and appreciative of what he does for you.
7. Hold his hands and make eye content more often
When you’re holding his hands, give him a warm and reassuring squeeze from time to time. Or even better, try to make eye contact with him for a longer period of time than usual.
If you can hug him, all the better:
It will send the message that you want to connect with him on a deeper level. Chances are, he will get the message loud and clear.
8. Buy him meaningful gifts
One way to tell a guy you miss him is by buying him meaningful gifts. If you know what he likes, or if you can get a feel for what he might like, try and buy him something that represents how you feel.
For example, if the guy you like is into sports, buy him a ticket to a game or a jersey of his favorite team. Or, if the guy you like is into music, buy him tickets to a show or a new album from his favorite artist.
The key is to find something that shows how much you care about him and that you took the time to think about what he would like.
When he sees the gift, it will be clear to him that you’re thinking about him and that you miss him.
Frequently asked questions and their answers
Here are common questions that women ask regarding this topic:
1. How do I know if he misses me too?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as each individual relationship is different. However, there are some signs that may indicate that a guy misses you.
If he frequently sends you text messages or chats, if he tries to make plans to see you, or if he seems to be constantly thinking about you, it’s likely that he misses being around you.
If you’re not sure whether or not he misses you, simply ask him directly.
2. How do I let him know I miss him?
It depends on the relationship between you and the guy, as well as your personal preferences. There are a few things you can do to let him know you miss him, though.
You could send him a text or chat telling him that you miss him, or you could call him and tell him the same thing.
If you want to be more subtle, you could always try sending him a gift or leaving a note for him telling him how much you miss him.
No matter what method you choose, make sure that the communication is genuine and from the heart.
3. What are some signs he’s missing me?
There are a few signs he may be missing you. If he constantly calls or texts you, or if he seems to want to spend more time with you than usual, these could be signs that he’s missing you.
If he’s always bringing up the good times you’ve had together, he may also be trying to remind himself of why he misses you.
Additionally, if he seems down or distant, it’s possible that he’s missing you and struggling to cope without you.
Ultimately, though, the best way to know for sure is to ask him directly how he’s feeling.
4. What are some ways to make him miss me more?
One way to make him miss you more is by doing things that make you happy. When you’re happy, you tend to radiate positive vibes and this will attract him to you.
Additionally, try to be less available to him. If he knows that he can always reach out to you, he won’t feel the need to miss you as much.
Finally, make sure that you stay positive and upbeat when speaking to him, even if he’s not around. This will help him feel good about your relationship even when he’s not with you.
5. How can I tell if he’s not missing me at all?
The easiest way to tell if a guy is not missing you is by his actions. If he is constantly doing things without you or making plans without you, then it’s safe to say he’s not missing you.
Another way to tell is by how much he talks about you when you’re not around. If he’s mentioning other girls or things he’s doing without you, then it’s likely that he’s not thinking about you when you’re not there.
Anyway, if you’re in a relationship with the guy you’re missing, I don’t see anything wrong with telling him directly that you miss him.
If you’re not in a relationship, well, if he clearly likes you too, then I think it will make his heart explode when you tell him you miss him.
What is the story behind you’re “missing” him anyway? If it’s all right, please share your story in the comment section, and let’s talk about it.
