What do you say when your boyfriend is mad at you?

Well, it can be difficult to know what to say to your boyfriend when he’s mad. You may feel like you’re walking on eggshells, not wanting to say the wrong thing and make the situation worse.

On the bright side, guys are generally tamer than women when mad and are easily more placated (at least from experience).

However, there are some things that you can say which will help to ease the tension and calm him down. That’s what we will be talking about in this article.

What to do when your boyfriend is mad?

The first rule is to remain calm. If you get defensive or emotional, it will only escalate the situation.

Try to keep your cool and understand where he’s coming from. He may be mad about something that doesn’t seem like a big deal to you, but it’s important to him.

Next, try to avoid getting into a heated argument with him. This will only make things worse and you’ll both end up feeling frustrated.

Instead, try to have a calm discussion with him about what’s bothering him. Listen to his side of the story and express your understanding.

Once you’ve done that, you can start to offer solutions to the problem. If he doesn’t want to talk about it, then you can try to diffuse the situation with some humor.

Sweet and cute things you can say to your mad boyfriend

Fortunately, guys are softies, especially to the person they love. That means the right words you can say that might cool him down exist.

Although I don’t know the exact situation of what’s happening with you two (or why he’s mad), you can try the list below and change it according to your situation:

  1. I know you’re angry and you have every right to be. But I just want you to know that I’m here for you and I love you no matter what.
  2. You’re right to be angry, and I’m sorry for what I did. I’ll try to make it up to you. I know this is hard for you, but please don’t be angry with me. I love you too much.
  3. Please forgive me. I’m sorry for what I did and I’ll never do it again. Thank you for being patient with me. What can I do to make it up to you? I’ll do anything.
  4. I know you’re mad, but I just want to tell you how much I love you. Please don’t forget that, no matter what.
  5. I’m sorry for what I did and I know it was wrong. But please don’t be mad at me, I can’t stand it when you’re angry with me. I hate seeing you like this. Let me know how I can help make things better.
  6. It sounds like you’re really upset about something. Can we talk about it? I want to help and I’m here for you.
  7. Thank you for telling me how you feel. It sucks that this happened, but I’m glad we talked about it. I love you. Thank you for being understanding. It means a lot to me. Can I do anything to help you feel better?
  8. I’m sorry that I hurt you. I was wrong and I’ll try to make it up to you. Please forgive me. I’ll do what I can to make this right. I love you.
  9. My life became more colorful and bright when you came into it. Please don’t be mad at me, I’m really sorry for what I did.

Then send him this message:

  1. I wish I were there by your side right now to give you a big hug. I’m really sorry for what happened, please don’t be mad. I know it’s hard to see things clearly when you’re upset, but just remember that I love you and I’m here for you no matter what.
  2. Can you come over so we can talk about this in person? I really don’t like it when we’re fighting. You mean a lot to me, let’s work through this together. I know we’re going through a tough time right now, but I just want you to know that I love you and I’m here for you.
  3. I miss you more every day. I really didn’t mean to hurt you, please forgive me. You’re the most important person in my life and I would be lost without you. I know we haven’t been getting along lately, but I just wanted to tell you that I still love you. No matter what happens, I’ll always be here for you.
  4. I’m dealing with my own weaknesses and I know it’s hard for you to understand why I do the things I do. But please try to see things from my perspective and have patience with me. I love you, even though I don’t always show it the way you want me to.
  5. I’m lucky to have you in my life. You make me feel so special and loved. I know I don’t always say it, but I really do appreciate everything you do for me. I’m sorry for what happened, please forgive me. Let me make it up to you. I love you.
  6. People may not understand why we’re together, but I do. I know you’re going through a lot right now and I want to be there for you. You’re not alone, I love you. Thank you for being patient with me. I know it’s not easy to deal with my mood swings, but I appreciate your understanding and support.

Frequently asked questions about boyfriends being mad

Here are common questions and answers about this topic:

What should I do if my boyfriend is mad at me?

If your boyfriend is mad at you, the best thing to do is try to talk to him and figure out what the problem is.

If he doesn’t want to talk, give him some time to cool off and then try again. Let him know that you’re sorry for whatever it is that you did and that you want to make things right.

What if my boyfriend doesn’t want to talk to me?

If your boyfriend doesn’t want to talk to you, it’s important to give him some space and let him cool off.

Once he’s had some time to calm down, try talking to him again. He may just need some time to process his emotions.

How can I make my boyfriend happy again?

The best way to make your boyfriend happy again is to try and figure out what’s making him upset. Once you know the reason, you can try to make things right.

Sometimes, simply apologizing for your part in the problem and letting him know that you’re there for him can make a big difference.

My boyfriend is always angry, what should I do?

If your boyfriend is always angry, it’s important to try to figure out what the problem is. Once you know the reason, you can work on trying to fix it.

If he’s angry with you, try to talk to him and figure out what you can do to make things right.

How to make my boyfriend miss me?

There are a few things you can do to make your boyfriend miss you.

First, try spending some time apart from him. This will give him a chance to miss your company.

Second, try doing something that he really enjoys with someone else. This will show him what he’s missing out on by not being with you.

Finally, try staying positive and upbeat when you’re around him. This will make him appreciate your company more.

Remember that communication is the key.

No matter what the problem may be, it’s important to remember that communication is key. Like most guys, your boyfriend’s anger will subside soon.

If you’re willing to listen and try to understand your boyfriend’s point of view, he will be more likely to forgive you (if you’re the one who made a mistake).

Showing him how much you care and being there for him when he needs you can make a big difference. Hopefully, the tips we’ve provided will help you work through any issues you may be having with your boyfriend.

Anyway, do you have anything you want to add? Maybe an experience you want to share? Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.

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Alan is the founder of Relationship Guide and other sites by Content Growers. When he's not writing here, he's busy helping clients generate more qualified leads and increase sales by educating readers with strategic content and writing blogs.

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